Do I Have a Chance

Q:Ive been seeing this guy I really like. It started out super strong and now is petering out. Hes not calling as much, and doesnt plan ahead for dates with me. I wonder if I did something wrong that pushed him away . . . like be too needy. Do you think theres a way to make this work out? I want it to so badly. Do you think I have a chance with him still? Or did I blow it? Please help me, Kathryn.

A:I have good news. There really is a chance that it can work out! But we would need to test it out and do some things differently just to see. Heres the dating advice or protocol I would prescribe.

1.Have you been doing all of the heavy lifting? Like the bulk of the texting, phoning and emailing to set things up? If so, you need to slack off. Back off and give him a chance to initiate some contact and even some plans.

We dont want to force it into happening. There needs to be some reciprocity and mutuality of interest.

2.Let go a bit while being warm and connected when you do communicate. This looks like calling less, finding other things to be busy about and doing a release on him internally -- something you probably know is a specialty of mine. This is one dating advice you’d want to keep.

3.Get and stay at soulmate level. Your vibration is everything. You can make anything work out, attract just like you want and more when you are in the right place energetically. Neediness and desperation are at the bottom rung of attraction and will never get you what you want.

Soulmate Level is hopeful, released, happy and standing in how amazing you are. It brings just what you want to you.

4.Dont put all of your eggs in this one basket (of this guy no matter how much you like him). This is another dating advice you should take seriously. Look around and be open to others (if you arent in a committed situation which I gather youre not). Flirt and focus elsewhere.

I bless you for working this out. Its possible, and remember that no matter what, you get love with your soulmate. Hope you find my dating advice helpful.

Im sending you love & support!

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Your Mental Power Right Now

By Paul Tonia

Every person faces loneliness from time to time. It is never easy to feel like you are all alone in this world. It is puzzling to many people. It is hard to face a daily challenge of feeling like nobody cares. Often, people turn to alcohol and drugs for comfort. It is always there for you and it often brings you to a feeling of happiness. You need to take your own accord and figure out what is working for you and against you.

When you look at your life, you often feel like anything can happen. We often see the light inside of our hearts as being easy to control. There is a lot of strong effort gained when you take on new challenges and work within a mindset that actually makes you a believer. I have seen many people healed through strong graces that have come into their lives. I think that its important to see a new beginning for your life. When we see something new, we begin to focus on the challenges that are in back of us. I see life as being a new beginning and approach.

Look at your own balance and ask yourself if you understand where and what bothers you. For the most part, it is a huge list of circumstances that effect our everyday moods. I like to look at life and feel like there is a challenge that grows. We can all look back at ourselves and see that change was a part of the day to day routine. Most people look at life and feel like their change is possible for various reasons.

I think that in life, you have to look for ways to take on new challenges. Challenges are never easy to face. They come to us in small doses and act like a light at times. It is important to ask yourself if you can easily let go of the past and move onto something that will make you feel more at peace with yourself. Take on new challenges and dont be afraid.

Learn to love your life so that your entire well-being can be helped. We all need to have a little bit of love in our lives from time to time. Focusing on what we need is often the best way for someone to travel into their own dimension. You need to have a basis in which you can discuss new foundations in life. Life is something that so few people know anything about. When you look at life, you begin to feel a sense of balance and change. Change happens when we are left smiling at a new beginning. In life, there is always a sense of change and a sense that everything is going to be okay in the end.

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Your First Psychic Reading What Can You Expect To Receive

By Jason Bernjoin

Many men and women in the United States today want to get a live psychic reading by a professional tarot card reader, astrologer or numerologist. It is important to note that psychics have a nice amount of power. In fact, they can predict the past, present and future. They have the tendency of showing us what we need to do in order to advance ourselves to a whole new level in life. Many people today get their reading via chat, phone and email. In person readings are not as popular as they once were. For starters, you have to physically go and see a psychic reader if you were to ever get a live reading. It takes a lot of time, discipline and experience to do this. It is better to get your reading over the computer because it is on demand.

People began using computerized psychics in the 1990s. It got its early start from people having the freedom and privacy of getting a reading. Believe it or not, many people feel safer getting a psychic reading online for several different reasons. The changes that are occurring are natural when it comes to readings. Many people like the fact that nobody knows that its them calling. A person can call a psychic anonymously using only their credit card. Their real name is never revealed to the psychic.

When you get your reading in a chat room, you dont have to worry about making an appointment. Most astrology websites today are set up where you can just walk into the psychics chat room and have them read for you. It is amazing how many psychics today are working on the internet. In the 1990s, most psychics worked from home and rarely did anything without an appointment. Today, the spiritual world has changed. Psychics today just log into the phone system or chat room and get to work. It is a lot easier today than it ever was before in the past. Take your time when it comes to chatting.

In the past, psychics were used to read a persons future. A psychic would tell them what to expect in their life at a later date. Now a days, the times have changed. People today are wanting the spiritual adviser to tell them why a guy doesnt love them or why a girl wont pay them any attention. Instead of asking about past lives and other spiritual questions, they are being used as mini counselors.

If you are like me, you probably want to get as many results as possible. It is not easy to get the results that you are looking for without taking some steps first. Before you get your reading, try to stay calm. People that stay calm during a reading often get better answers. The reason for this is that you are not nervous and neither is the spiritual adviser.

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Our website gives a 3 free psychic chat online reading 24/7 hours daily. The psychics on our website to webcam, phone and chat readings. It is always a pleasure to witness people feeling happier with their life after communicating with a spiritual adviser. Our site is easy to navigate through and provides informative biographies about our advisers.

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UPDATING PART 1 The Approach

Q: Kathryn, I have an issue with guys Im intimidated by. I cant approach them, cant hold a coherent discussion and feel they would never be interested in me. I think I heard you mention something about updating one time. What is it and does that relate to my issue? Can you help me overcome this? I feel like it gets in my way as far as finding my soulmate goes.

A: Updating is basically dating out of your league. I dont believe in it but many buy into this notion. If you feel someone is scary to talk to because theyre desirable to you, you may believe that theyre somehow better than you. This is a false idea. There ARE NO leagues, only human beings looking to connect.

The next time that you see someone you find attractive, here are some suggestions on connecting with them.

1. Get rid of the idea that theyre better than you or could reject you. They cant. There is no rejection, only the wrong fit.

2. Remember were not all attracted to the same thing so there is probably a REASON that youre vibing with this person. Intend to explore what is there.

3. Shore up your energy so its not desperate, which is repellent. Remind yourself that you are special, a catch for your soulmate. Personality, I’d take this advice if I want to find my soulmate.

4. With no agenda other than connecting and keeping in mind that you are worthy of ANYTHING, approach the person and look him in the eye. Smile and ask him something about himself. Remember hes just a human being like you and needs to connect.

If you are fearful of approaching someone youre actually drawn to, like many that I work with, you automatically count out the people most likely to be your soulmate. I cannot be scared of approaching my soulmate. Make it a point to stretch into allowing connections with those you find attractive. If you believe in updating, then vow to be a master at it!

I send you love for conquering your "hot person" jitters. Your soul mate is the hottest person youll encounter just like my soulmate, so we have to get a handle on this issue.

Im going to continue exploring this topic of updating in the coming weeks, since I have so many questions from you all that relate. So check back with the blog soon or subscribe above so you dont miss anything.

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How to Get Back With Your Ex Your First Steps to Get Back Your Ex Back Fast

Relationships end for a number of reasons, and some times it is an automatic reaction to get back with your ex. But, do you really want to get back with your ex, or is it just habit? Do you miss her/him or do you miss having someone to support you? Are you confused and dont know what to do with yourself? Follow a few of the following steps and hopefully it will help you evaluate where you stand and whether you should get back with your ex!

#1 Evaluate your relationship

When your relationship was up and running, did it feel like quality? Were you arguing consistently? If it felt like a quality relationship and is something that you miss, this is a sign that you should be together. If you found yourselves arguing 5+ times a week about nothing in particular, then it probably wasnt going to work anyway!

#2 Eliminate certain scenarios

Are you wanting to get back with your ex in case they get with someone else? This is definitely not the right mentality to have. You should want to get back with your partner for who they are and what you have together, not because you are worried about her being on someone elses arm. In fact, if they are happy and you love them, then you should be happy for them!

#3 Break down communication

Communicating on a daily basis now isnt a good thing to do. Give yourselves some space and allow yourselves to establish whether it is right to pursue the relationship.


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