3 Mindblowing Secrets to Connecting

Aug 29th, 2012

Youngest of 4 Boys, He is Tough But a Love
Happy Birthday, Julian!

On the 6th birthday of our youngest, Im saying "hi" to you! Hope that youre having a great August. We are between trips 7 and 8 this summer, and after this, were staying put for a while, and folks are coming TO US to visit.

I just became aware of how to see stats on the visitors I get to this blog, and I had NO idea how many of you visited it. Wow! Im honored, and I promised to keep you uplifted and traveling toward love. (Hi, dad!)

If you have had trouble connecting with a love interest, then keep reading. Ill share with you some amazing ways to connect and even invite you to a free teleseminar coming up to help you out.

Heres to a GREAT end of summer! Lets have an amazing fall -- the perfect time for new beginnings -- as well.

love,
Kathryn

Making Contact: 3 Mindblowing Secrets

Whenever I teach my yearly “Date for Your Soulmate” Telecourse,  peoples’ minds are blown at how easy it is to make contact once you gain a little know how. It is easier than you think to become a master connector so that after a conversation, someone simply cannot get you out of their head.

Here are 3 ways to make contact with someone you find attractive.

     1. Eyes – establish eye contact. Look into the other person’s orbs to find the sacredness therein, and it fosters an amazingly deep connection. As you enter a conversation, focus your attention fully on the other person. Do not look away. Don’t check your cell or glance around the room. Act like they are the most fascinating person in the world.

2. Words – start a conversation – even if it is mundane. A

recent success story (from the above-mentioned telecourse) is a shy woman who finally broke out of her shell to speak to a handsome man in an elevator with her. It made the ride much less awkward, and he appreciated the contact. This chit chat fostered a relationship that is still going strong (& getting serious).

Listen more than you talk – with positive regard, even fondness. Look for similarities the two of you have. Smile and instead of trying to be a wit, foster understanding, and the results will be very pleasing to you.

 

3. Touch. We all like to be touched. And reaching out to another enriches any connection immensely and can foster chemistry, as well. Never cling or get needy, but from a space of wanting further contact, put your hand on the person’s forearm in a gesture of understanding as you converse. It might feel forced at first, but this will start feeling more natural to you.

There are times when your touch – just a reassuring squeeze on the shoulder or a quick caress on the head – will be more powerful than any words you could say.

These three easy ways of making contact come from the method that I teach called “Soulmate Level of Attraction.” As you inhabit that level, you become the most charismatic person in a room, no matter how shy or introverted you’ve been in the past.

 To go deeper into this work (making contact is the biggest block many have to love), do join me for my upcoming free teleseminar called “5 Irresistible Ways to Connect.” You can reserve your space by clicking here or visiting the below link: http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#200

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The 1 2 3 Punch

Happy Thanksgiving! We are spending the day with family & friends. I’m making deviled eggs and a tofurky roast for those vegetarians amongst us.

I hope you have a wonderful day, as we express gratitude for all that we have.

On that note, we begin a special phase today of accelerated manifestation that includes Step 1 of what I call the 1-2-3 Punch.

I always find it useful to acknowledge this and use the heightened period to consciously create the next intention that we want.

If you are ready for your soulmate, we’re exploring Step 2 on Tuesday with a free teleseminar called “Love Sabotage.” You can sign up for it here:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#250

In this blog, I’ll teach you the first step of the 1-2-3 Punch to manifest. Stay tuned for Steps 2 and 3 in future newsletters.

Have a great Thanksgiving!

Love,

Kathryn

The 1-2-3 Punch

The holidays offer a period of time in which we can manifest more easily than usual: moving from one year to another, time out from usual activities plus a chance for celebrating.

If you have a strong wish for change in your life, it’s a great time to capitalize on this opportunity – starting now.

Even if you are not in the U.S. where today we give thanks for what we have, it’s the perfect time to begin this process. It follows a natural phase that occurs during the

next few weeks.

This exercise is one of conscious life evaluation and resetting for your next wishes.

Step 1: THANKSGIVING. Today (or over the long weekend), make a list of everything you are grateful for in your life. From simple things like your health, your breath and the sunshine to blessings during this past year, really stop to appreciate your year’s highlights.

You can ritualize this – as we do – by speaking a couple of your gratitude highlights together in a group round robin. Or do it privately alone or with one or two people. As you

take this step, really give thanks for what 2012 has brought – the good things.

Step 2 - Step 2 has to do with release. I will talk more about this step in my next blog and then, Step 3 of this magical process closer to the end of the year. I have used the 1-2-3 Punch to manifest as many as TWENTY-THREE intentions in one year. I’d love you to have that same success!

I’m doing a free teleseminar this coming Tuesday called “Love Sabotage” to honor Step 2 – getting rid of any pattern that may have thwarted you in your wishes for your soulmate. I’d

love you to join us. Sign up here:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#250

Upcoming Events

Tuesday, November 27: 6 to 7 pm Pacific

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•  The specifics of REPELLENT and ATTRACTION behavior

•  Learn to SALVAGE any relationship that you want

•  How to quit SABOTAGING yourself in dating & relationships

• 4 things you should NEVER DO when meeting someone youre

interested in

• The SECRET attractant that is irresistible

• A MAGIC practice that can turn around any situation

This teleseminar is designed to make you aware of how you affect what you manifest, often without even knowing it . . . and adjust your energy to produce just WHAT YOU WANT!!

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This may be IT -- the one ingredient you need to at long last welcome in your soulmate! 

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Competition in Love

November 9, 2012

Cuddling at the Pumpkin Patch Farm

I hope you are doing well wherever you are & whatever your weather is doing. While weve been getting some rain in SoCal, where weve settled in for the holidays, our East Coast friends have been suffering with so much worse, and our prayers continue to be with you.

Next week, a miracle is occurring. I’ve got TWO free events in one week, and I hope you can come to at least one of them.

Occasionally, I get to mentor folks, and my only 2012 "business" teleseminar is coming right up next Wednesday: “3 Easy Ways to Jumpstart Your Practice.” If you’re at all interested in passive income, you should be there. To gain access, sign up here:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#100

The other free event is a live soulmate workshop in my home town of Venice on Sat, Nov 17th. I’d love you and many other lovely singles to be my date that night. I like supporting independent bookstores and YOU. To find out about this free event (which will be crowded – get there early!), go to this link, and remember just to SHOW UP, no registration required.

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#200

Read on to find out my take on competition in love. And I hope to see you somewhere or another next week!

Love,

Kathryn

Competition in Love

I once worked with a woman who grew up on competition. She was a competitive swimmer as a teen from an over achieving family, and everything was turned into a horse race.

Sure enough, when it came to love, it always seemed that she was vying for a guy’s attention. Yet more proof that what you BELIEVE acts as true until you adopt a better belief.

The fact is that competition and love don’t mix. Even the IDEA of competition in love puts you at the lowest rung of attraction – one where soulmate love can’t happen – something you well know if you’ve ever heard me teach my 3 Levels of Attraction material (a recording that comes with the Soulmate Bootcamp.)

Competition will not produce soulmate love. Period. So with this client, we had to work on getting rid of a deeply engrained paradigm surrounding competing. Over and over again, we reiterated the fact that her soulmate would see only her. No one else would stand a chance with this hunk.

One date told her she was not as pretty as his ex. Out the door he went!

Another seemed to get off on pitting her against other females. Next!

Finally, a very attractive man made no bones about the fact that he was into her. She could not believe the “luck,” and had to get used to his undivided attention. He outshone anyone she had ever dated, and finally, she knew for sure that competing was not a part of real love. The two are now married.

To learn more about the 3 Levels of Attraction, don’t miss my rare, free live workshop on Saturday, Nov 17th in Venice, California. To find out where and when, visit this link:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#200

(Just show up but come early -- there will be a crowd) 

Heartbreak Corner: The Ex is Dating 

While we are on the subject of competition, let’s talk about how this relates to your ex. So many I’ve worked with have made the mistake of thinking that their ex’s new love has something they don’t. They compare themselves unfavorably and feel inadequate.

Remember this: there is no rejection, just the wrong fit. If your ex was not your soulmate, it would never have worked out. There is nothing wrong with you! And you are not less-than!

If you have thought this or are thinking it now, work on your insecurities. You need to see how precious and lovable you are.  And once you are with your soulmate, you’ll see that in his or eyes, you can do no wrong.

Let me quote my old therapist Joyce Arohnson: “don’t let anyone take away your self-image.” Recovering from heartbreak is bad enough but piling on false ideas of your own inadequacy can produce needless misery.

I invite you to remember that you are more than enough, and a break-up has nothing to do with your supposed flaws.

In a Relationship? Jealousy 

A little jealousy can spice things up in a relationship. A LOT of jealousy means you’re insecure: particularly when your mate is giving you no reason to be green-eyed. Rather than get suspicious or ask for reassurance from your mate, curing jealousy is an inside job. Work on shoring up your own self-image.

Remember why your love fell for you in the first place. List the many reasons others have said they adore you. Add in your achievements and the things folks say make you special. Make note of all of the good times youve shared so far with your One, and regularly remind yourself: "I am a catch. Im perfect, lovable and more than enough."

Overcoming jealousy can take some doing. Chip away at it, and you will gain new faith in both yourself and your love.

Upcoming Events

FREE Mentoring Teleseminar for Coaches, Healers, Practitioners or Anyone who Would Like to Make Passive Income. 

Live call on Wednesday, November 14th from 6-7:15 pm PST

"3 Easy Steps to Go Full-Time" -  Become a Master Practitioner

From time to time, Kathryn mentors other practitioners, healers and coaches on how to succeed.

This is a rare offering of her expertise. She is honored to help you step fully into your calling.

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Free Workshop & book-signing in Venice, CA

on Saturday, November 17th: 7-9pm

"Call Forth Your Soulmate" -   Everything youve been told about dating is wrong!

• learn how easy it can be to find love

• enjoy an evening with other great singles

• discover how to stay at the soulmate level of attraction

• find out what has delayed your journey into love

• dissolve any delays or blocks to your One

• undergo a secret process to magnetize romance

• quit sabotaging yourself

Dont miss this rare, FREE chance to experience Kathryns

teachings. There will be teaching, discussion, Q & A,

exercises.

This Saturday night may change the rest of your life.

Other conscious singles will be there, as well. Arrive early. Space is limited, and a crowd is expected.

Mystic Journey Bookstore

1319 Abbot Kinney Blvd.

Venice, CA 90291

+1 (310) 399-7070

Find out more here

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