3 Mindblowing Secrets to Connecting

Aug 29th, 2012

Youngest of 4 Boys, He is Tough But a Love
Happy Birthday, Julian!

On the 6th birthday of our youngest, Im saying "hi" to you! Hope that youre having a great August. We are between trips 7 and 8 this summer, and after this, were staying put for a while, and folks are coming TO US to visit.

I just became aware of how to see stats on the visitors I get to this blog, and I had NO idea how many of you visited it. Wow! Im honored, and I promised to keep you uplifted and traveling toward love. (Hi, dad!)

If you have had trouble connecting with a love interest, then keep reading. Ill share with you some amazing ways to connect and even invite you to a free teleseminar coming up to help you out.

Heres to a GREAT end of summer! Lets have an amazing fall -- the perfect time for new beginnings -- as well.

love,
Kathryn

Making Contact: 3 Mindblowing Secrets

Whenever I teach my yearly “Date for Your Soulmate” Telecourse,  peoples’ minds are blown at how easy it is to make contact once you gain a little know how. It is easier than you think to become a master connector so that after a conversation, someone simply cannot get you out of their head.

Here are 3 ways to make contact with someone you find attractive.

     1. Eyes – establish eye contact. Look into the other person’s orbs to find the sacredness therein, and it fosters an amazingly deep connection. As you enter a conversation, focus your attention fully on the other person. Do not look away. Don’t check your cell or glance around the room. Act like they are the most fascinating person in the world.

2. Words – start a conversation – even if it is mundane. A

recent success story (from the above-mentioned telecourse) is a shy woman who finally broke out of her shell to speak to a handsome man in an elevator with her. It made the ride much less awkward, and he appreciated the contact. This chit chat fostered a relationship that is still going strong (& getting serious).

Listen more than you talk – with positive regard, even fondness. Look for similarities the two of you have. Smile and instead of trying to be a wit, foster understanding, and the results will be very pleasing to you.

 

3. Touch. We all like to be touched. And reaching out to another enriches any connection immensely and can foster chemistry, as well. Never cling or get needy, but from a space of wanting further contact, put your hand on the person’s forearm in a gesture of understanding as you converse. It might feel forced at first, but this will start feeling more natural to you.

There are times when your touch – just a reassuring squeeze on the shoulder or a quick caress on the head – will be more powerful than any words you could say.

These three easy ways of making contact come from the method that I teach called “Soulmate Level of Attraction.” As you inhabit that level, you become the most charismatic person in a room, no matter how shy or introverted you’ve been in the past.

 To go deeper into this work (making contact is the biggest block many have to love), do join me for my upcoming free teleseminar called “5 Irresistible Ways to Connect.” You can reserve your space by clicking here or visiting the below link: http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#200

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An Inspiring Love Story

Oct 5, 2012

The Kiawawas, As Were Called :-)

Have I got a good story for you! I’m flying high right now, looking forward to weekend guests coming in today and four days of festivities, celebrating a very special wedding.

Every year a group of my high school buddies (we went to an all girl Episcopal school) reunite on Kiawah Island, South Carolina. We’ve marked all sort of life changes and milestones together and shared good times over the years.

Below is the story of one of them, and I know you’ll find it inspiring.

On another note, we’ve scheduled another Love Breakthrough Intensive in Los Angeles in a couple of weeks. The last one (in May) of these small groups filled up before I was ever able to let you guys know about it. If you’ve needed personal support from me or are ready for a breakthrough, this is a rare chance. Find out more here while we’ve got space.

See you soon!

Love,

Kathryn

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The Happy Couple!

 An Inspiring Story

This story is about the wedding I’m attending this weekend, and the bride. She is 52 and has never been married until now.

She’s one of our group, and many years she felt that as we brought photos of babies and family news, she just had nothing to share. I felt for her and told her that her time would come.

She had always wanted children and was sure that this had passed her by, too. A successful actress with a vivacious personality, she worried she was too much for a guy to handle. She travels often, lives large and has boundless energy.

Her love life started getting more active. She had two false starts. For the first time, she found herself in two serious relationships in a row. Neither worked out, but she was creating a template of what it is like to be in a relationship, a novelty for this free spirit. And she was getting clearer on what would work for her and what wouldn’t.

Then, she met her guy. A widower with a small girl, he was everything she wanted. The first time I met him – on Venice Beach – I thought he was a camp counselor, he looked so young and in shape. She seemed younger with him. And he could keep up with her. A successful philanthropist and radio show host, he is always going on exciting trips, getting awards, exploring the world just like she enjoys doing.

And his girl! My friend has always been amazing with children, and she bonded quickly with her future child, taking her side, the girl’s point of view and doing special things for her.

This friend had to get used to a man adoring her and “getting” her. He lights up under the glow of her bubbly personality, sees how radiantly beautiful she is and brings out more of her wit as he appreciates every bit of her. Her independence does not threaten him but intrigues him.

It took her a while to trust that this was real, and he wasn’t going anywhere. It took him a while to convince her to marry him. But this weekend, it is happening. She has worn a beautiful engagement ring for a year now. They have remodeled his house in anticipation of her moving in. They had engagement parties in New York and Los Angeles. And now, the big day is here.

Our gals are all flying in from the East, some staying in our guest house. Now, our good friend has the best news of us all, far outstripping any of our previous news.

It’s been a long time coming, and today, I celebrate her and her groom. If you have worried that love has passed you by or if there really could be the right one for you, then take heart. Maybe you’re next! But one thing is for sure. You, too, get love, someone who gets you and who is the perfect fit.

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Upcoming Events

As I conduct my sold-out “Date for Your Soulmate” Telecourse this fall, I don’t have much else slated.

However, we’ve scheduled another LOVE BEAKTHROUGH INTENSIVE in LA in 2 weeks. The first one sold out before we ever got to inform those on my list. Because these events are so small, there is not a lot of room, so check it out now if you have needed more personal attention from me to support you in what you want in your life. The Intensive is a VERY small group half-day with me plus two private phone sessions.

To find out more & grab your space, if you need it, click here or visit the below link:

http://www.kathrynalice.com/events.htm#200

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Skip the Despair!

May 20, 2012

What a magical day our wedding was!

It has been busy, busy with Jon and I celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary, his birthday, Mothers Day and baseball games. What a whirlwind this marriage has been! Two babies, two times around the world, a book, a business and much more. It still feels fresh and exciting, which I consider one of the hallmarks of soulmate love (you get this, too!)


Finally, I dont care if youve been single for 35 years -- which is the case for one of the recent success stories to join my "wall of weddings." You have every hope for love. And even when youre completely discouraged and ready to give up, it doesnt change the fact that there is someone for you. Read on for 3 reasons why you need not despair.


love,
Kathryn

3 Reasons You Can Skip the Despair

How many times have I heard someone say "Im ready to give up" or "I just cant do this any more" in regards to their love lives? Pretty regularly. I know it can be hard when your love life seems to be a "dating desert" or when youve been on your 15th disappointing coffee from match.com.

You just dont have any more energy for getting knocked down again. No one does it for you. And if you meet someone interesting, theyre either married or indifferent. Meanwhile, youre kicking yourself for screwing it up with your ex, because (s)he may be the best you can ever hope for.

None of this changes the fact that you get love. There is someone looking for you right this minute. Here are 3 reasons why you need not despair.

1. Remember its a process. Every dissapointing date, every minute youve got a vacuum where love can come in (which can look like feeling lonely), brings you closer to love. Does a 1-year-old put their head in their hands and weep when they fall down for the 20th time in their quest to walk? Not usually. They just try again. Youre well along your journey to love, so get up and keep going!

2. You get to be happiest. If you have waited a while for love, youre the one who will never take it for granted when it comes. You held out for the Real Deal, your One, and it will be worth the wait. You didnt settle. And it will pay off as you pass everyone you know in the love department.

3. Love can happen in an instant. For all you know, you may meet someone today or tomorrow. Love is not like a career where you experience a steady progress to success. You go from 0 to 90 in a single second. One minute, youre alone and the next minute, youre giddily in love, making plans for a life together. So, no matter how bleak it may look at the moment, it can and will change quickly.

Besides all of the above, despair can delay your progress, and we dont want THAT, right? So, chin up! You still have every hope for love, and I support you in remaining open and positive.

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